Hello guys! Yesterday was April fool’s day. Personally I feel that this is by far the most difficult day to live in the entire year. Almost everything we see or hear is a prank.
I recently watched a movie titled James and Alice. It’s a Malayalam movie based on the journey of James and Alice, who were love birds turned to a couple.
This movie tickled my thoughts. It ends with a very wonderful phrase saying,” Death gave me a second chance and it was called life.”
So what is it all about? There is a beautifully presented stat in the movie. A 60 year old man lives for 21,900 days. Out of this half of the time is spent for our night’s sleep, which means we are awake for only 10,950 days! Upto the age of 15 we live under the control of our parents and after 55 under the control of our children. So we actually have control of only 30-35 years of our lives. This is the time we spend in our entire life doing what we end up doing, good or bad!
So basically life is short. Nothing new about that right? How many of us actually live our lives instead of just running through it? Very few.
When two people are in love, they speak so much to each other. They say I love you numerous times in a day, but this number becomes zero once they are married. Why? Do the they love each other anymore? Is the burden of running a family forcing us to run?
Many of us have a very false assumption that once we start earning the sole purpose of life is to earn and collect for our future generations. Remember money can earn you luxury but it can never create fond memories.
When a man dies, people make a report card of him based on the kind of life he lived. Nobody discusses his salary. Death is a full-stop to the money earned but the memories live forever. Earn more respect and memories than just money.
There’s another thought tickling instance in the movie. After marriage James and Alice weren’t communicating with each other, James was busy earning and making money. This hurts Alice. She wants the support and presence of her husband. Eventually she applies for a divorce. They meet a counselor and there she speaks out her reasons. James didn’t say anything in response and offers her a glass of water and says,“Well said, if you would say all this to me while we were together, we wouldn’t be here today.”
Yes, a lot of our problems can be solved if we are ready to talk. We humans don’t have any preinstalled software in us which enables us to predict what someone else is feeling. Freedom of expression is a human right, use it, don’t just say that you have it. Challenges come free with life and instead of grumbling it’s more apt to speak up and get over it.
The days are limited in life but not the possibilities.
While studying we are busy trying to outscore our rival. In teenage we are busy running for jobs and after marriage we are busy running for money. Have a look, we haven’t lived life yet, all we are doing great is just running. If that’s all we plan to do, then might as well rename life to race.
Run when you need to but don’t let life be only about running! April fool’s day is only on 1st of April, don’t fool yourself for an entire life.
Wish you a very enjoyable and peaceful day. God bless!
Again a very beautiful and meaning post. I really don’t have more words to praise your writing skills, it’s just amazing. And so true “don’t fool yourself”.
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Thanks Monika! Feels great to be applauded by you. Haven’t seen much of you recently. I guess you’re busy elsewhere. Great to see you after long!
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Welcome! Welcome!
Yes, I’m busy because it’s exam time. And wait, really you didn’t see any new update….I think there’s a technical issue.. May be that’s why I got a worst response 😜😜
well, read my new post hope you like it
http://wp.me/p8g2rs-9t
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Oh! Good luck for the exams! Actually I hadn’t opened wordpress for a few days, maybe that’s why! I’ll definitely read it as soon as possible!
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Very well written post Jothish, it’s always a pleasure to get to read your blogs that are no less than artworks. The way you connect pictures and quotes to your posts are very thoughtful and make the reading more interesting. Best wishes for your great work 🙂
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Thank you so much Polomi! It’s a pleasure to read your views and your appreciation is always an honour.
Glad to hear from you after so long. Hope you’re doing good. Waiting to read your posts!
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I’m doing great, thanks Jothish. I did post a couple of days ago, you can check it out from my page. Guilty of not being a regular blogger 😛
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I’ll definitely check it out. As I have said many times, your work stands out. You write seldom but that seldom is still amazing! The only problem however is that we readers get less opportunity to interact with you!
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This is truly a thought provoking write-up!! I have seen people chasing the six figures salary and losing life in the transition. Eventually they forget why were they running because in the end they still are not happy with money.
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Thank you so much for those words of appreciation. And yes, many of us forget that it’s more important to live than just earn…. Thanks once again,
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“Death gave me a second chance and it was called life.” … Such a good post! I believe the best part of marriage is the continuous courtship… We change as we get older and so the journey to discovering each other needs to remain constant… Your absolutely right… Intimacy of sharished moments and true companionships are taken for granted…but when the dust settles from our busy schedules… What’s left??… As always you get the mind racing of simplistic logics masked by the notions of untold truths ☺☺
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😊😊…Thank you! Married life is incredible in its own way form what I hear from experienced people….I still have long way to go😊
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Thought provoking and an awesome post… just like there is a saying ” you can always make money… you can’t always make memories…” we weren’t born just to pay bills … You’ve nailed it! Thumbs up for that 👍🏼👍🏼
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😊😊😊 thank you Sandra! Happy to know that I’ve done justice!
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It was a pleasure to read… 😉😊👍
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Very well written!Esp I luv the end about not to fool our entire lives!
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Thanks a lot! Glad you enjoyed reading. Have a great day!😊😊
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Emotions inked so well!!
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Thank you so much 😊! Where have you been? Haven’t seen much of you recently!
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Yea, stuck up with something ,will be back soon
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😊 I’m waiting eagerly! Unless your next post isn’t about any beauty tips😜…. Hope you’re all good and enjoying life.
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Hahhahaha Nope! Whenever I pause I come back with a heart out , so u may like it .. Very soon it’s anticipated
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I’m anxiously waiting 😊
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You always make such a good point. Reading your post made me think of so many things. Sometimes I hate myself for not having patience with my little one at all times and I get upset but instead I should just forget all bad things and look at her, smile and just live.
Thank you for yet another great read
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Thank you ma’am. As usual I’m humbled. It’s a real blessing to have you read my posts. 😊😊
Long time since I’ve heard from you, hope you’re having a great time.
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Thank you. Crazy busy times with little monkey who doesn’t sit still a minute 😂 Need to write more
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😊😊. When your bundle of joy sits still, that’ll be unusual though. But like you always keep saying, it’s a feeling beyond words. Have a great day ma’am.
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Same to you. Looking forward for new posts from you 🙂
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This is wonderful Jothish! You bring up so many great points. Life is a journey and money doesn’t always equate to success or happiness. Enjoy the little blessings we have every day. Have a wonderful Sunday!
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Thank you so much for those lovely words. Wish you a great Sunday and a great week ahead too!
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Have a wonderful week as well!
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I think this was such a great and important post! A great reminder bhai👍Great words👍
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Thank you dear! I hope my reminders make a difference to your approach towards life.😊😊
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We all are running, parents and society are pushing, no one knows where is the end what is it all about, like herds of sheep we travel together, in a whole purpose to be safe with others!
The reminders are life savours, at the end the richest person is also buried next to a sweeper…
It does make a big difference in a small way!
It’s really nice to read something like this and so welcome!❤😇
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You are a real gem of a person Shivee. So glad I know you.😊😊😊
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That compliment made my day👍😇That was a thought provoking post, and Same here👍😇Thank you so much❤😇
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This is a fantastic post. I can’t thank you enough for it! You have given me so much to think about and be mindful of.
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I’m so glad that this post helped you and thank you so much for the heartfelt appreciation!😊😊😊
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I love the message through the post! Never ever lie to yourself and a make a fool of yourself. Great words. 🙂
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Thank you Sweta😊
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Thanks for reminding me that LIFE is Journey and not just some short distance race
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You’re always welcome 😊 great to see you, hope you’re doing well!
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I wish more and more people could read this. I’M DEFINITELY SHARING THIS ON MY WALL. The way you described the modern day problems in such a free effortlessly flowing way, I absolutely loved it, especially the problems they face after marriage, the lack of communication. It is so far the most common problem why couples fall apart. Very well written Joseph. Way to go ♡♡
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Thank you Taj… It’s an achievement for me to know that I was able to gets my thoughts across to you and more importantly impress you. Thanks for those lovely words of appreciation. Have a great time! 😊
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Your blogs reach hearts♡♡♡
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I really enjoyed reading this post. It truly makes me reflect on the deep thoughts you present. I will definitely re read this to really internalise this ☺
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Thank you so much! I feel really happy about the fact that I help you discover your soul. Your honest words have made me proud of my work. Stay blessed!😊
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What a lovely post. We do spend our lives rushing about and stressing over things that waste our time. Enjoy life as this is not a dress rehearsal.
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😊😊 thank you….
Happy to see you after so long! Haven’t seen a lot of posts from you recently.
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Work is very busy culminating a 2 yr project should be back to semi normal this week 🙂
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Your posts are always so thought provoking. And I’m so glad I followed your blog..! ❤ 🙂 🙂
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😊😍 thank you so much Sayantoni! I am glad I could resonate your thoughts.
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Agreed – though as I don’t have children hopefully I’ll get a few more years of freedom!!
There is a lot of resonance in both your post and mine….
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Hehe! Neither do I. That’s great to hear, will definitely read your words as soon as I can!
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That was a great post. Well written! We spend way too much time chasing behind things that don’t really matter in the long run. You’ve raised a lot of great points!
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Thank you Shweta!😊 Hope you are keeping well.
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Oh yes, I’m good! Hope you are doing fine too. It’s been a while since you last posted. Hope you had a great weekend 🙂
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😊 I was busy with my books. Wish you a great weekend too.
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I thought so too! All the best with your studies. 🙂
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