True joy is a feeling beyond the vocabulary and there have been innumerable joyous instances in our lives. We tend to curse our bad moments but perhaps it’s time to value and be thankful for the precious moments. One such period is our days in school.
When you hear the word ‘school’ what comes first to your mind? Homework? School bus? Parent teacher meetings? Well, irrespective of what comes to our minds we certainly remember our school days. It is a once in a life extravaganza.
Did we ever get worried about our marks in school? Were we worried about our looks? Were we worried about the next day? No, there were basically no worries other than the usual silly ones. All we did was to just enjoy the moment.
Around two years ago a professor asked us the difference between a school kid and a person in the 20’s. Since we all were very much interested in the subject he was teaching we gave a lot of biological answers. However, this is what he said,”When you were kids and happened to sit with girls and she touched you, you hardly ever noticed it. Now first of all you guys are dying to sit beside a girl and even if a tip of her attire touches you, there is an electric shock moving through your body.” Silly but true!
What has changed since we grew up into adults that has made us so desperate? Has the growth of knowledge and understanding crippled the kid within us? I think so!
The best part about school was nobody felt insecure about another’s success. Nobody felt uncomfortable to share answers with others. I remember an incident where the invigilator caught me showing my answers to my friend. We all were desperately looking for the answer to a question which nobody knew in the exam hall. Then one of my classmates who finished the exam went out and told me the answer through the window and even told me to correct an answer I had written wrong. This never happens in a competitive exam.
Life in school is simple and a totally innocent one. We enjoy each other’s moments of happiness. Be it a birthday or celebrating a festival. Everybody is equal. In college the people with more marks form a different group and the last benchers form another. There is a mental division between the students. When we do something silly at school everybody enjoys it but in college it’s a prestige issue.
In school we all talk to almost everybody. But as we grow up the number declines.
Basically the number of friends we talk to is inversely proportional to our age.
At school if we have a fight with our friends it last for hours or maximum to days. In college that person gets a permanent tag of an enemy.
I feel really blessed that I still have contacts with atleast a handful of my schoolmates. Those who don’t give me importance I don’t mind. It’s their personal call but when they need me I’ll certainly be there for them as a good old friend. I believe that our best friends are always from our school days because those were days when we hadn’t seen a world which was full of jealousy and cheating. Nowadays we pick friends considering a really long list of requirements. That’s insane because no matter how well we pick, every individual has a shortcoming. We need to understand our friends from the heart and learn to accept them with the bads they have.
So let’s be kids from the heart and be as true to life as in our days at school. Celebrate the friends whose memories are imprinted in the golden era of your journey. Friends are there to help us and cherish our achievements not to be envy of them.
Whenever you miss those days just take a moment to brush up those memories with the people who lived them with you.
Wishing all my readers a great day. God bless!
Okay….thanks a lot!
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Ohh!! So is it necessary? Can I do it now?
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That’s upto you! If you wish to. Or you may just write about a random topic you wish to write on.
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https://zaira2901.wordpress.com/2017/04/05/first-blog-post/….here’s the link!
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This is auto generated right? You haven’t written anything about yourself or the reason you’re writing for.
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Thanks…. I have posted two blogs of mine…. I’m really new to all these ….so a humble request to visit my blog and and guide me by giving some advice!!!!thanks
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But I don’t see any posts in your blog! I’ll try to be as helpful as possible.
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Yes it is!!! Speaking to you was fun as well as changed my perspective towards blogging and the true motive behind blogging!!!…thanks for your little time…hope you keep going
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It’s my pleasure!π Hope you enjoy your time in the world of blogging and I’mβ looking forward to your first post and being a fan.
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According to your personal experience how long does it take to become a recognized blogger….how much time did you take to become SO famous!!!!????
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Famous? Well, I do think think I am anywhere close to being called famous. As for the experience, in this place nothing is wrong or right. So as long as the content is appealing and unique, people will appreciate the effort. Write your heart out and you’ll be a happy blogger. Isn’t being happy greater than being famous?
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You are welcome…and my name is not that hard to pronounce…lol
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π…it’s not at all difficult! π
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Wonderful article …. It was like all my school memories were flooding back while reading your post …. Thanks a lot for making me and everyone else remember about the most important part of their life….
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Thank you so much Zaira(hope I’ve mentioned your name right!) I’m so glad I could help you live your lovely memories.
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This a beautifully written !!
As it’s my last year in school , I am actually nostalgic of everything that happened .
Great work
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Thanks Charvi for the appreciation! Your comment reminded me of my last days in school. Enjoy every moment!!!
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Yes !!!actually ….
It was sort of a coincidence that when you were on my blog , I was on yours π
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That’s a rare coincidence! Particularly in a place which is more like an ocean.
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Waves do come face to face in the vast expanse π
Nice to meet you π
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Impressive! Nice to meet you too. Hope the waves keep meeting!
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I couldn’t agree more with the view of – ‘the number of friends we talk to is inversely proportional to our age.’
Though I believe you can make few more friends while in college, but once you get into corporate or any kind of job, you can hardly find anyone to even genuinely talk to, let alone befriending them. It’s not friendships cannot be cultivated after college, but it is extremely difficult to come across such people who are sincerely interested in befriending you without any other personal interest.
I personally have only one best friend from my school, and four from my college life. And I am extremely contended with having this small circle. π
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The bitter truth about life indeed. And as you said having really good friends is better than having too many false ones. Thank you so much for the appreciation. It really means a lot.
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Very well written. …this article reminds of my school daysβΊ
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Thank you ma’am. π The purpose was indeed to rewind to those days!
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Reading this brought back so many memories of my good old school days! Sometimes I wish I could go back to those days. Thanks for reminding us of the importance of being true to ourselves like we were when we were younger.
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Happy to know that I could help you ponder on your school days and maybe bring a genuine smile to your face. Like you believe, everyone has a unique view of life. It’s a honour that my uniqueness could be helpful to you.
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I love this
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Thank you so much. I really feel blessed to have my post enjoyed by a blogger like you. π
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Awww thank you
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Very well written!!
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Thank you πππ
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Effective things written in short wordsππ .. appreciable effort as always …keep writingπ
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Thank you Jaikant. π
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Wonderful article on how adulthood robs us of childish innocence. Though it’s hard to be kids after growing up, one can do so by being simple, pure-hearted and by learning to let go.
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Well said! I totally agree with you. Glad you enjoyed it. I really appreciate your views.
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You’re welcome π
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